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I learned to surrender to life: Bashir.

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Germantown, Philadelphia. Maceo introduces himself and the platform and asks the usual questions; the answers are not usual. Where is he from? “Germantown, man, but I moved in and out,” with time in New York, where his twin flame is, and two kids at home.

How is he living? “I live good, man. I learned to surrender to life, man. I learned to surrender to all the aspects of life. And now I can get what I want.” What he thinks stops most people is upstream of circumstance: “Everybody’s limited from life. from how they think.” His own method: “As long as I think outside the box, man, I allow the universe to fill in the blanks.”

On the city he does not soften it. “I think Philadelphia is a very historic city,” and “it’s a lot of pain here. It’s a lot of pain. It’s a lot of struggle.” What he does about it is the image the piece is named for: “I’m the candle, I’m the light, so I’m the big candle, and I’m out here trying to light other candles, man,” to help people “understand that they can be much more than they are.”

His message to anyone under ten in Philadelphia is the longest answer he gives: “Dream big. There’s nothing beneath you,” and then, three times over, the thing not to let decide it for you: “Don’t let your environment create who y’all want to be. Don’t let y’all families, don’t let what y’all see on TV, don’t let nothing y’all see outside of y’all self determine who y’all want to be.” The channel titles him Bashir The Businessman. Names are as the channel titled the pieces when they were published; where the transcript heard something different, this page says so rather than choosing. The transcript below is from the original audio.

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0:00What’s up, man? I’m out here. My name is Maceo, and I’m with We Them Media, and I’m out here. I’m asking people. What’s your name? How old are you? Okay, and where are you from? Okay, what part of Philly? Right here, man. Germantown, man, but I moved in and out. Okay, cool. I’ve been around New York, like a lot of places in the city here, man. Where in New York?

0:25Well, where my twin flame is at, you know, if y’all know about twin flames. Oh, shout out to her. Shout out to her, man. She on my neck, man. Rent. Okay. Yeah, man. Two kids. Yup. Yeah. Seven and Serenity. Shout out. Most definitely. Give it up. Gang, gang. What’s up? So, how you living? I live good, man. I live good, man. I learned to surrender to life, man. I learned to surrender to all the aspects of life. And now I can get what I want. Nothing. Nothing stopped me from being where I want to be. Everybody’s limited from life. from how they think. You know what I mean? I think outside the box. As long as I think

1:05outside the box, man, I allow the universe to fill in the blanks. You know what I’m saying? Mm-hmm. Mm-hmm. And what do you think about Philadelphia? I think Philadelphia is a very historic city. I think it’s a very, um, um, I think it’s a lot of pain here. It’s a lot of pain. It’s a lot of struggle. But a lot of my people, I’m the candle, I’m the light, so I’m the big candle, and I’m out here trying to light other candles, man, and illuminate that light with inside my folks, man, to help them to understand that they can be much more than they are, you know what I’m saying?

1:49That’s beautiful. Look out, look out, bro. If you could ask people across the city one question, what would you ask them?

2:09And if you have a message for the people under the age of 10 years old here in Philadelphia Under the age of 10. Wow. Dream big. There’s nothing beneath you. Y’all can do whatever y’all choose to be. Don’t let nothing stop. Imagination is y’all oyster. Don’t let your environment create who y’all want to be. Don’t let y’all families, don’t let what y’all see on TV, don’t let nothing y’all see outside of y’all self determine who y’all want to be. Cause y’all are so much more

3:06I appreciate it, man No problem, man, no problem I appreciate you

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