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Two women, a message, and a question back.

A note before this one: both women here talk about people being killed in their neighbourhood, and about guns, and it stays where they put it.

Three minutes on a street in Philadelphia with two women who take the camera on together, one of them from North Philly. It opens mid sentence with a message aimed at the whole city. “As black people, we need to look out for each other”, the first says. The second names what she is talking about: “a lot of killing, a lot of stray bullets going on.” Between them they land on the same instruction: “Start fighting and put the guns down.”

Asked what it is like being a black woman in Philadelphia, the answer comes twice over. “It’s tough. It’s hard”, says one, and the other takes it somewhere else: “At the end of the day, we strong black women out here. You can never break a black woman. A single black woman, black mother, you can’t break.” On whether black men are doing their part she gives credit and a bill in the same line, “Some of them are. I’m going to give you your props, but some of y’all gotta do better”, then addresses them directly: “As a Black man, you gotta do better. You a king. Do better.” She has skin in it. “I got a son. I’m raising a king.”

Her message to young men in the city is a refusal of limits: “Don’t let nobody tell you you can’t do shit. You can do whatever the fuck you want to do.” The other woman keeps hers to four words, repeated: “Put the guns down. That’s my message to all the young men out there in Philadelphia.”

Then the format flips and they are asked for a question of their own, one to put to the rest of the city. It takes a minute to arrive: “if you could change your environment, what would you change your environment to be?” She explains why she picked it. “A lot of people, I know a lot of people wish they could change their environment and they can’t, you know.”

She is from North Philly, and asked her favourite thing about it she starts with “There is none.” Pressed, she finds three: “the barbecue during the summertime”, “The music”, and “The blocks popping. Everybody lit, having fun.” Then the qualifier: “But other than that, it’s just a lot of killing, a lot of Fighting and shit like that.”

Community she defines in three goes, “Natural”, then “People coming together”, then “As one.” Asked for a moment in Philadelphia that felt like that, she cannot find one at first, then does: “people marching on the streets saying like, stop the violence and shit like that.” Who was marching, she explains, was families. “people die often in Philly. So people, families come out and they protest for their family members.” She has come across a few of them.

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0:00AYeah, whatever you want.

0:02BOkay, we gonna do it together.

0:03CAll right, listen, city shit. We need to get fucking better. As black people, we need to look out for each other. It ass.

0:08BNo, a lot of killing, a lot of stray bullets going on.

0:12CReal shit. Get y’all life together.

0:13BGet better.

0:14CYeah.

0:14BGet in the field. Start fighting and put the guns down.

0:16CYes, real shit.

0:18AHow is it being a woman in Philadelphia? A black woman in Philadelphia?

0:21BIt’s tough. It’s hard.

0:22CIt’s tough. At the end of the day, we strong black women out here. You can never break a black woman. A single black woman, black mother, you can’t break. You feel like black men are doing what you’re supposed to do? Some of them are. I’m going to give you your props, but some of y’all gotta do better.

0:35BAbsolutely.

0:35CY’all gotta do better, all right? As a Black man, you gotta do better. You a king. Do better. What’s king? I got a son. I’m raising a king.

0:43AOkay.

0:43CYeah, do better. Go ahead, cousin. Yes. My son?

0:46AGive a message to young Black men in Philadelphia.

0:48CMy message to Black men in Philadelphia? Don’t let nobody tell you you can’t do shit. You can do whatever the fuck you want to do.

0:53BPut the guns down. Put the guns down. That’s my message to all the young men out there in Philadelphia. Put the guns down.

0:59AGive a question for people across the city.

1:01BAcross the city?

1:01CYeah, question.

1:04ANo. Ask anything. Like the the point is to be curious, even if it doesn’t feel comfortable or organic.

1:10CI don’t know.

1:12AThree, two, one.

1:14CMy cousin, what’s going on? We we vlogging.

1:16APick a question. What’s your name?

1:19BMama’s.

1:19AMama’s. It’s nice to meet you. I’m a say.

1:21BNice to meet you.

1:22ASo if you could ask people across the city one question, what would you ask them?

1:25BUm, if you could change your environment, what would you change your environment to be? Did that make sense?

1:32ADefinitely, definitely. You make a lot of sense. Tipsy right now. But that’s okay.

1:36BI wish I could. A lot of people, I know a lot of people wish they could change their environment and they can’t, you know. That’s my question.

1:44AAre you from Germantown?

1:46BNo.

1:46AWhat part of Philly?

1:47BNorth.

1:48AOkay. What’s your favorite part about North Philly? What’s your favorite part about North Philly? I’m a little bit drunk too.

1:52BThere is none.

1:53AYou don’t have a favorite part?

1:55BI mean, the barbecue during the summertime.

1:58AOkay.

1:59BThe music.

2:00AOkay.

2:01BThe blocks popping. Everybody lit, having fun. But other than that, it’s just a lot of killing, a lot of Fighting and shit like that.

2:09ASo when you think about community, what comes to mind? Yo, my camera isn’t great, but it’s an iPhone.

2:13CWhat? No, it looks crazy though. Let me help you out. Let me help you out.

2:16AOh, okay. Look at that. Look, I like that. That’s how you do it. That’s teamwork. So when you think about community, what comes to mind?

2:22BNatural.

2:24CLook at that pretty smile.

2:25BPeople coming together.

2:26AOkay.

2:27BAs one.

2:29CYeah.

2:30AAnd when you think about one moment in your lifetime and not in Philadelphia, what is that?

2:33BI’m sorry, say that again.

2:34ADo you have a moment in Philadelphia that for you is like, that was community? If you had a moment that comes to mind when you think about community in Philadelphia, what comes to mind? Nothing.

2:42BI mean, I can’t really think of much, but I probably like people marching on the streets saying like, stop the violence and shit like that.

2:51AIn 2020?

2:52C2022.

2:52BOh, wait a minute, wait a minute.

2:54AThis year?

2:54CShe said to the right, not to the left.

2:55AWhat were they protesting?

2:56BThey was protesting like, you, like people die often in Philly. So people, families come out and they protest for their family members. So you might come across one here and there, and I came across a few.

3:10AYeah, yeah. Okay, thank you. Oh yeah.

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